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Wednesday, May 11, 2011

Top 10 Reasons to Volunteer

Prior to homeschooling, I do not recall ever volunteering for an organization. Sure, I donated money or food or clothing, but never my time.

Once we officially started homeschooling, I realized that I might not return to the workforce for many years, and figured I had better do something with my life that a future employer would deem valuable. Of course, being CEO of the Wilson family is an important job, but it just does not stand out in a virtual pile of applicants.

So, I decided to start volunteering for organizations near and dear to our family: Cub Scouts, HSC, and GHF (Gifted Homeschoolers Forum). I discovered that I gained so much more than an improved resume. Thus, here are my Top 10 Reasons to Volunteer:

1. Non-profit organizations desperately need volunteers. Without people freely giving of their valuable time, the groups on which we have come to rely would cease to exist. They need us, just as much as we need them.

2. Focus on others, instead of ourselves. Volunteering is all about helping others. Whether we deal with people face-to-face or work in the backroom, volunteering forces us to think about others. Imagine what a better place our world would be if we all spent more time thinking of others.

3. Set an example of stewardship for our children. By putting our time and effort into something about which we feel passionately, we actively demonstrate the importance and power of participation to our children. If we do not take part in our world, how can we expect our children to do so?

4. Make new friends. One of the common mantras in agony columns is “If you want to meet new people, follow your interests.” Volunteering is the ideal way to meet amazing people who share our excitement. We find people who understand and celebrate our enthusiasm, people who really “get” us.

5. Pad that resume. O.K., I know this is more practical than the previous four reasons, but it is important for anyone thinking of re-entering the workforce in the future. Employers want to see an unbroken work history. They may understand taking time off to raise a family, but rightly or wrongly, they will not understand an 18-year gap. They need to see that you were working on your skills, fulfilling job duties, and consistently being reliable.

6. Try new things. Want to learn about web design, marketing, management, or some other area in which you have little to no experience? Volunteer! Since volunteer-based organizations are always searching for new people, they are much more open to training people to do the job needed. Keep in mind that many of the people you will work with are also volunteers, so they may not be able to do a lot of hand-holding, but if you are a motivated self-starter, you can learn an incredible amount.

7. Networking. This tags onto numbers six and seven, but is different from number four. Volunteering allows you to make contact with people who have an even wider access to professionals in the field. By taking your volunteering commitment seriously, learning all you can, even going above and beyond your basic duties, you will find other opportunities opening up for you. If you are not ready to take advantage of them at the moment, keep in touch with your contacts, keep volunteering, and let them know when you are ready.

8. Receive discounts and freebies. Now, we all know that we volunteer for the positive feelings we get doing it; however, a little incentive can be a good thing. Perhaps by volunteering you can get a discount on a conference your organization hosts or on membership fees. Maybe, your organization has ties with other organizations or businesses that offer discounts or the occasional freebie. If you are looking for something specific, ask. If nothing is offered, you have just found yourself the perfect volunteering opportunity: creating volunteer incentive plans for your organization!

9. Television rots your mind. People all too often claim they have no time to volunteer, yet if we add up the amount of time we sit watching T.V., playing around on the Internet, and generally goofing off, we would quickly find we have far more time than we realized. Certainly, downtime is important and not everything on television or the Internet is a waste of time, but doing something you love can be just as rejuvenating as sitting in front of a screen for hours, perhaps more so.

10. Just because. It is the right thing to do. You know you should do it. You have always wanted to do it. You feel compelled to do it. You are tired of my nagging. Whatever the reason, do it just because.

Article by Sarah J. Wilson (Originally published in the February 2011 issue of California HomeSchooler.)

Tuesday, May 3, 2011

"What Really Matters": Focus on Learning, not Educating

Homeschoolers easily get bogged down in the minutea of their everyday lives. We risk spending more time worrying about doing the right things for our children, instead of actually doing things with them. What should be an experience filled with joy and freedom becomes a drudgery laden with frustration and disappoinment.

What Really Matters: Two veteran homeschooling advocates discuss what learning is really all about, by David H. Albert and Joyce Reed, strips away all the extraneous matter we tend to add to our homeschooling lives, leaving us with what really matters: fostering the love of learning.

Beetween them, Mr. Albert and Ms. Reed parented and home-educated seven children, all who have gone on to lead successful lives. Yet, neither David nor Joyce approached homeschooling as an educational style; instead, they viewed it as a lifestyle, one which opened up a realm of learning possibilities to the entire family.

Readers are drawn into the written conversations between the authors, becoming part of the discussions. Each chapter is self-contained, with titles, such as "Secret Spaces, Hidden Places," "Hyrogrifix," "Perfection is the Enemy of Excellence," and "On Trauma, School Disease & the Way Forward." These thoughtful and thought-provoking essays will open up new avenues of thinking for many homeschoolers, while reaffirming the paths of others.

Ever wonder what the purpose of college is for students who already know how to learn independently? Check out "Why Go to College?" Ever sat with your child, struggling to get her to do workbook pages? Take a moment to read "Workbooks." Fear your children are growing up too fast? Sit down with "Time After Time . . ."

What Really Matters is available through a variety of small bookshops and online retailers. As always, supporting members of the Gifted Homeschoolers Forum (GHF) will receive $2.00 off the listed price when they purchase the book through David Albert's website, www.skylarksings.com.

Article by Sarah J. Wilson

Saturday, March 12, 2011

Books about People Making a Difference

Any education should include learning about people currently making a difference in our world. Reading (or hearing) about regular people who have done extraordinary things teaches all of us that we, too, have that potential.

Children, especially, need to hear this, as they are often inundated with negative views of the world through the nightly news, newspaper headlines, violent video games and movies, and other media. It can be overwhelming.

Numerous stories of heroism, courage, strength, and goodness are just waiting to be read. Many titles are also available as audio books or e-books.

Here is a list of books that are worth investigating:


Stories available online:

People to consider:
Kofi Annan
Jimmy Carter

Places to look for more inspiration:

For families with Wolf scouts, reading three of these books (or any others along these lines) satisfies Achievement 7e: “With an adult, find three stories that tell how people are protecting our world. Read and discuss them together.” While “protecting our world” can be narrowly defined as environmental, especially given that Achievement 7 is “Our Living World,” it can also be interpreted as anything a person is doing to make the world a better place: fighting disease, making a school safer, providing education to people who want it, giving blood, helping refugees, and so much more. We are part of this “Living World,” and we need to honor those that make it safer, healthier, kinder, and stronger.

Article by Sarah J. Wilson